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Cancer claims dad, leaves family shaken

| December 2, 2010 8:00 PM

This 19-year-old doesn't want anything for herself from Press Christmas for All.

She is seeking holiday help for her fiance and his family, especially his 13-year-old sister. Their father died from cancer just a week before Thanksgiving.

"It was very difficult ... it is still difficult," she said.

The young woman and her fiance, 20, both attend college.

She moved in with her prospective in-laws several weeks before the father's passing, to help maintain the household while the family cared for the ailing man. His last months were particularly hard on the family.

The dad was hospitalized for a time last summer when chemotherapy and radiation treatments made it difficult for him to eat or drink.

The day before he died, the father began coughing up blood, and was rushed to the emergency room. He was sent home with medication and appeared to have improved dramatically, enough to take his scooter out for a ride.

"He went and visited the neighbors and was just feeling really great," she said.

That evening things suddenly took a turn for the worse.

"His last words were to call 911," she said. "We had to start CPR, so my fiance did the chest compressions while his mother did the breathing. I instructed while speaking to the dispatch woman and trying to keep his sister from seeing everything."

An ambulance came and took the man to the hospital, but he was pronounced dead shortly after arrival.

The family is reeling emotionally, and their grief is compounded by anxiety about their financial situation.

"The only income that we have at the moment is mine and my fiance's which doesn't even cover the bills themselves," she said. "We hope that at least the 13-year-old can have some kind of Christmas present to open on Christmas morning."

With our readers' assistance, Press Christmas for All works to brighten the holidays for folks like this - people left jobless, homeless or who are barely making ends meet, individuals with disabilities or illnesses. Many are alone this holiday season.

Last year our generous readers' donations allowed us to assist thousands of families in need, and this year we expect to be asked for help from far more.

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