PROP 1: The difference holding a baby makes

When I was in my 20s, I supported Women’s Rights. My justification was that if a girl’s life would be ruined because of societal shame she should be able to do what she wants. Fast-forward, 45 years.

I volunteer as a Cuddler at a local hospital. Cuddlers are trained volunteers who provide physical affection and a soothing presence to premature or critically ill newborns in the Neonatal Intensive Care Unit (NICU). 

Most of the babies I get to hold are small, very small. These little ones are the same size and age as a baby that can be aborted in other states. I look at these tiny, precious souls, who receive such excellent care from the nurses, doctors and surrounding staff and think, what is the difference between these babies and the ones that are aborted? One is wanted, the other not. One is given loving care with the latest in medical technology, the other’s life is taken, brutally. 

In my heart and mind what used to be a care for women’s rights has transitioned to a care for a baby’s rights. Holding those little bodies has changed my perspective. These are the same age and size babies that could be disposed of.

As to societal shame, it no longer really exists. A woman’s life is no longer ruined having a child out of wedlock. 

Then there are the couples who are not able to conceive; they would desperately love to adopt an “unwanted” child.

When it comes time to vote on Nov. 3, I will be voting NO on Prop. 1. 

VICTORIA SLATER

Coeur d Alene