RESPONSE: Why do we have to celebrate?

George: I understand the perspective you’re coming from.  

Pride might seem unnecessary to some who haven’t had to think about what it means to live openly in a society that hasn’t always been accepting.

They’re proud of surviving. They’re proud of existing openly in a world where, not long ago and in many places still today, doing so could mean losing their job, family, safety or their life. They’re proud of building communities, raising families, serving in the military, fighting for justice...

Coming out still risks social rejection, religious condemnation, or physical harm. Living openly is an achievement. Pride celebrates resilience, resistance and progress.

“They were born this way, so what personal actions did they do to be proud of?” This does not exclude anyone from having reasons to be proud. Black History Month doesn’t celebrate being Black — it honors the struggles, achievements and contributions of Black individuals. Pride honors history and equal rights.

Regarding international pride, those cultures have celebrations. Parades, festivals and heritage months. No complaints because visibility is normalized. When marginalized groups celebrate their identity, it’s seen as “in your face” because people aren’t used to seeing them proudly exist.

Pride isn’t about sex, rather visibility. Straight people hold hands in public, get married on TV, kiss in movies, talk about spouses; the LGBTQ+ community doesn’t care, they are happy for you.

“We just don’t care.” History shows that indifference has never protected anyone’s rights, the majority included.

DUSTIN FEHLMAN

Seattle