ISENBERG: Forgiveness heals

Dear Mr. Isenberg: I read the article in which you were interviewed by The Press and felt compelled to write.

I followed the whole story from when it all began in 2018 with a great deal of interest. I felt convinced your stepmother had murdered your father from the very first. Please accept my deepest condolences on the loss of your father.

I tried to imagine what Lori was thinking on that awful day. I think she had been moving into the darkness long before that fateful day. Taking money that didn’t belong to her was just the beginning of the journey. As time wore on, I wonder if she ever stopped to realize the light of goodness and love was dimming and then was finally gone. That is kind of how evil works. It takes just a little bit at a time and finally it doesn’t feel like evil anymore.

I believe the only way you will heal is to fully forgive her for what she has done. You cannot allow any anger or darkness to take up space in your heart or soul. Your dad wouldn’t want that for you. The Almighty will judge Lori as he will each of us someday. But for now, your father is in the arms of his God and knows nothing but joy.

I cannot express how sorry I am for what this has cost you and your family; in money, grief and loss. I don’t believe anyone in this community would ever judge you for what your stepmother has done. I certainly don’t. I write this in hope it may bring you some comfort.

You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.

CHRISTINE SHEPPARD

Coeur d’Alene