Dealing with the emotional turmoil of memory loss

When you or a loved one is diagnosed with Alzheimer’s disease or other forms of memory loss, it is easy to feel helpless and isolated. Perhaps the greatest lesson you must learn, however, is that you are not alone, states Susan Faltermeyer, Director of Community Relations at Creekside Inn Memory Care in Coeur d’Alene.

Memory loss is undoubtedly a stressful and emotional experience for everyone involved. Finding a method of coping that works for you and your loved one is vital. Maintaining and open mind and flexible attitude can greatly and positively affect your day-to-day routines.

It is also important to remember that no two people cope or deal with illness in the same ways. If you have personally been diagnosed with Alzheimer’s disease you may react much differently than your loved ones.

Receiving an

Alzheimer’s Diagnosis

Faltermeyer stresses that after receiving an Alzheimer’s diagnosis, you may feel a flood of differing emotions. Many experience a combination of anger, relief, denial, depression, resentment, fear, isolation and a sense of loss.

During the early stages of the diagnosis, many find writing their thoughts and feeling in a journal to be helpful.

Another key element in coping is to stay engaged. After the diagnosis, many become isolated and withdrawn. Stay involved in familiar activities.

Keeping an open dialogue with family members and friends and think about joining a support group. Here, you will have the opportunity to connect with others facing the same challenges.

A Loved One Received

an Alzheimer’s Diagnosis

Your loved one is not the only one that will be dealing with a rush of emotions after an Alzheimer’s diagnosis. The diagnosis will affect family members and loved ones, as well.

As the Alzheimer’s Association will tell you, this is the time to get educated. Talk to your loved one’s doctor and do your own research. The Alzheimer’s Association’s website (www.alz.org) provides many great resources to help educate you on this journey.

Local Memory Care Community, Creekside Inn, offers a monthly support group. Call Creekside at 208.665.2444 to learn more about the group and how sharing your experiences can help alleviate stress, guilt and burnout.

While it is clear that your loved one will be in need of support after the diagnosis, don’t forget about yourself. If you need a break from caring for your loved one, respite programs are good options.

Memory loss is difficult for all that are involved and its effects can be far-reaching. As you go through this journey, be willing to ask for help and always remember that you are not alone.

Call Creekside Inn Memory Care in Coeur d’Alene at (208) 495-4896 to speak to Susan Faltermeyer about solutions and options for assistance with caring for your loved one.