Common ground across the generations

The Red Hot Mamas who have served in the military suggest meaningful ways to express appreciation for veterans:

* More compassion.

* A simple "Thanks for your service." Most of us don't want or need recognition.

* By showing respect, gratitude and appreciation. Thank them. It feels good. We are not out for any special treatment.

* Respect and support our military even when in disagreement with the political aspects. Each military person is a person.

* Don't assume vets are all crazy when they return. They have lived through more extreme scenarios than most people. Support and thank them.

* Please treat veterans well. Support their causes. Support American Legion and VFW. Be nice.

* Many people don't even take off their hats when the flag is raised or the national anthem is sung at ball games, parades, and other events. Gratitude can be expressed by simply standing and removing your hat.

* Help the stand downs.

* Sign up with the VA to drive veterans to appointments.

* Thank the guy in the tidy uniform for the right to wear your baggie britches, tattoos, and gauged ears. Thank the gal in the straight-laced uniform for the right to squawk and argue about your rights in the newspaper, carry anti-this and anti-that signs, and spit out your opinions wherever you chose.

* If you feel like putting the VA down, think about the support program the Taliban offers its veterans.

* Ask veterans to share their stories. Have a cup of coffee with grandfather. Listen.