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Surgeries trouble for family

| December 18, 2010 8:00 PM

This family's troubles began last year when the father needed open heart surgery to repair a defective heart valve he had been born with.

"My wife and I are both in our thirties with four wonderful young kids and we try to do the best that we can," the dad told Press Christmas for All. "This year it just seems like our best isn't going to be enough for the kids."

Following the surgery, he was discharged from the hospital after a five-day stay, but ended up back there in less than a week after developing complications. He was admitted and stayed hospitalized for a month as physicians tried to figure out what was causing him to have daily fevers of nearly 106 degrees.

Eventually, he became so ill he was "within inches of death" and needed emergency surgery.

"My wife said that the scariest moment was when she signed the papers to donate my organs if I didn't make it through," the father said.

He pulled through, but the recovery has been long and slow.

The dad returned to work, but continues to have days when he is unable to remain at his job, when the pain becomes overwhelming.

"I have good days and bad days," the dad said. "For awhile, the good days outnumbered the bad days. However, in the last two months the bad days far outnumber the good days. The only thing that I can do is go day by day."

Not long after he was released from the hospital, the couple learned the wife needed a hysterectomy.

"This was not in our plans and was just another setback that we were going to have to push through," the dad said. "We just pulled together as a family again and worked through it all."

The medical bills and lost work time have affected the family's finances.

"I know that there are many families out there that are in need, and some that are worse off than my family and I are," he said. "This has been a hard year for my family."

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